tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18171692.post113915665948637802..comments2023-10-03T12:20:53.726-04:00Comments on ¡Cecilieaux!: The Worst Thing You Can Do To Your LoverCecilio Moraleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05283375962527765787noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18171692.post-15645091963070964252009-09-30T20:00:37.431-04:002009-09-30T20:00:37.431-04:00marriage can be absurd. so can any other form of ...marriage can be absurd. so can any other form of human relationship. we've been doing it a long time, and there are benefits and drawbacks. I'm on my third -- it works until it doesn't work any more. I never did buy the 'til death do us part' part. I do until I can't stand being with you anymore!Taradharmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17665801586196931603noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18171692.post-1144441117020073922006-04-07T16:18:00.000-04:002006-04-07T16:18:00.000-04:00True what was said. Not by the author but in the f...True what was said. Not by the author but in the feedback comments. You find that person to trust with and is the only one that will be there when they are all gone. By they I mean, your sons, your parents and everybody else. Another good option are dogs but they last fewer years plus you can not have sex with them. Or can you?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18171692.post-1139238977290752762006-02-06T10:16:00.000-05:002006-02-06T10:16:00.000-05:00Your "joke" : "the worst thing etc" is as old as t...Your "joke" : "the worst thing etc" is as old as the world and it is a male joke. Why ? Do the men expect forever a bleached blonde doll with siliconized breasts, when they are losing their hair and getting a flabby belly ? <BR/>Marriage or long term living together is companionship and friendship where you can share your intimacy , and "see each other's worst", yes, burps and other gas which escape unwillingly, rheumatism and bad digestion, and later dentures and incontinence. <BR/>You dont need " to make efforts" to please the other, the other will admire you in spite of all the well-knowed failures, and will always believe in your potentialities.<BR/>Not only ironing the shirts or fixing the car, barking at each other, but also sex and laugh, tenderness and support, the comfort of an indefectible trust, beyong temporary sexual or sentimental escapades. The only person in the world that you can really trust, after losing your parents.A pillar. <BR/>See Jacques Brel's song : "Les Vieux" :<BR/>" They hold their hands<BR/>They are afraid of getting lost"<BR/>OH yes, a nascent love is so delightful. But to choose between ephemeral pleasures or a longlasting happiness ? It is absurd, yes it is. <BR/>GenevièveAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18171692.post-1139219433137318642006-02-06T04:50:00.000-05:002006-02-06T04:50:00.000-05:00Marriage may not be perfect, but if has some legal...Marriage may not be perfect, but if has some legal safeguards which simply "living together" does not. These safeguards will doubtless vary from place to place, but have been a significant impetus towards allowing "civil partnerships". It affects the tax position when one or other dies. It grants the partner the right, as next of kin, to participate in medical decisions, and to attend the partner if/ when they become hospitalized. It allows a joint tenancy to continue, rather than throw the relict out, it allows all goods held in common to be retained by the survivor. It allows a higher threshold for inheritance tax. It allows for a cheaper rate of joint medical insurance.<BR/>Love may come and go, or may persist, but so long as you are comfortable with the person, why rock the boat?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18171692.post-1139166917852026132006-02-05T14:15:00.000-05:002006-02-05T14:15:00.000-05:00I disagree. Marriage is NOT the worst thing you co...I disagree. Marriage is NOT the worst thing you could do to someone you love (It is not the BEST thing either). <BR/>The worst thing you could do to someone you love is to forget why you are being loved in the first place.<BR/>TeoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com